
Norma Normans might sound like William the Conqueror's younger sister. It is, actually, a Latin theological term that means "the norm that norms." Norma normans refers to the ultimate authority that serves as a norm for all other authority.
There are many sources of authority in the classic fantasy RPG community--rules, sourcebooks, quotations from important game creators and designers, blogs, etc. Within the gaming session, the DM is usually considered the ultimate authority. However, to me, the true norma normans is the entire group of people at my gaming table. That doesn't mean that we vote on a particularly decision that I make as DM or we reach a consensus on what monster they are about to encounter. However, over the long haul, to me is all about the group of people at the gaming table. We, as a group determine the system and style of game we want to play. My goal as a GM/DM/CK/Ref is to work with the players to create the type of game we have decided that we want. While I have a high view of the role and responsibilities of the GM/DM/CK/Ref, I have an even higher view of our gaming group. I suppose this is in large part, it is because I have always been blessed with great players who are also good friends (or is that good players who are great friends). While I take my guidance from many sources as I play and DM, ultimately the group that truly matters are the group of people at the table.
What is your gaming norma normans?





